Wednesday, February 27, 2019

Women's position

In Finland all children go to school and people conversate a lot, with both women and men, and with kids too. In Finland women's rights are quite well, much better than in many coiuntries.

My experience says that position in a group goes typically to those who well and aloud support the basic things of the group, while too intelligent far fetched solutions are dropped away. Men appear in Finland, at least in the capital district where I grew up, more stupid on average than Finnish women, so that men are often very satisfied with the basic workings of groups and find them interesting and pleasant, while women would long for some more insoght, and so position in such groups goes more often to men than to women, and when it goes to women they are not so satisfied with things anyway. And when some level is lower than that of average men, boys often find such things good or excellent and so they serve as forefigures of people who get nicely along with such things. Women'sposition gets lower also via emphazis on nursing instead of on picture of the world and getting the society well, honestly. Such I think are reasons for poor women'sposition also abroad, plus lack of education.

If you would have earned position but did not get it, say basic things clearly, (so that it is clear for all that you know those things and take care of them diligently, that you really are motivated to those things.)

Sunday, February 3, 2019

Instead of assuming people have different nature pay attention to the benefits they reach for in that

Often people who suppose that different people have different ages old nature which may be evil too, end up interpreting ordinary rules of behaviour as if one ought to allow evil deeds freely, but that is an error in the picture of the world. All people and animals have at a general level the same basic nature which includes using the senses, moving, eating, understanding, feeling, being part of the social environment for example of the society, communicating in some way, etc. It does not include things that are consequences of the way of w´grew uo or the like, even though it ind´cludes a good understanding and being in a good way a part of the society. Typically people who like to be termed evil, malicious or the like, search for some benefit in sio doing, for example gaining position, rights, some classification for themselves, some reputation that gives the social support, some type of things to do that they like doing, etc, and the situation would oftne be quite easy to understand if one noticed those benefits and centered one's understanding of the situation largely on them being a quite big motivation.

Often people see differencies in how war like one's views are as a conflict that they do not know how to solve, but typically on a general level just about all have the same view: to live their life  while being strong enough to protect and keep their sides, but their social pictures of the world are very different, likewise their level and type of social eye and wisdom of life, and so their favourite professions with their skills, skill level and task in the society and maybe in the world are very different.