find safety if one is in accord with the wishes of a very wide
majority of the surrounding people. And there are many ways to that.
Three ways that I consider among the best are following the rule "Live
and let others live!" (See Learn the skills of Finns
same blog and more widely moral at large (See
my twenties, see World is of love (a mechanical model)
Common sense and a picture of the whole are also needed, see the first