Women wishing for work like men's work

Some women do lot of evil, and often the reason for that is that they would like work like men's work, but when they are given such, they want something else, for example more social or wider ins cope, but refuse call it some other version, and so they again are given very boring men's work and so they get tired in a day or so and quit. They should pay attention to what expressions are used of each choice about w´how to do work, and change the exporession to suit their present view of what kind of work they want.
My mom liked her work a lot. And she had blue jeans, quite worn but without holes, quite nice looking, somewhat female but kept much like some men might keep theirs and not very finely. She also had a kind of ball shaped woolen shirt with dots (single knitted loops) of another colour. She had a hair almost to the shoulders witrh sorter above the eyes. It was kind of man like yet recignisedly female, very work oriented. She enjoyed her work very much.

The rights of people (and animals)

What rights a person has is based on behaving ways fit into a society, morally that is and with healthy common sense, objectively. How much rights each person has depends on how much skills they have and how much responsibility they carry about each area of life and of the world. Also situations matter and one needs to take into account what the person himself/hetrself is like. If someone used to be evil in something, one needs to make lots of extra precautions before one has the right to influence such much like others. Also interests affect. If one has some influence from the more skilled, such does not bring as high skill as the skilled have ordinarily, and it does not fit together with one's whole picture of the world, one's work ethic, habits, values, inclination etc, and so it does not bring as high rights.
Also one needs to take into account what are the social relationships between persons. generally one has the right to affect one's own life in ways fit into the society, but not the lives of others, except fairly isok. If one likes some person, that person typically has the right to come near and live one's ife near by,while others cannot by copying or by classifications adopt the same rights. Humans and animals differ in characteristics, so that typically they have different rights, for example small animals often have the right to come so near that they are clearly seen, while humans would be too close that near. Animals and humans also do not share the same sphere of life, are not interested in the same things and so an animal passing by or in the company is often ok, does not affect much, while humans coming as near would be a nuisance since they want to mess with one's life.

About the relationship of humans with apes

I do not know much, if anything at all, about gorillas etc, but I have heard that in Africa in Congo there has been civil war of humans with gorillas. As far as I know apes are much like humans and not like the wild nature, so the relationships of humans with apes may be like relationships between humans. If anyway gorillas are classified as animals, some may neglect their basic rights as humans and be more likely to kill them by shooting or the like, and so the apes may take that as a personal threath and want ot conquer the arms etc. To such the cure would be civiliced liberal-minded behaviour that takes apes as one type of humans, and so the need of war would be smaller in the eyes of apes.
All differencies between character types are not fullt ime. Some may be hard at work but enjoy a comfortable sofa at home. That also creates understanding and communication ground between different types of persons.
If things get more criminal in evening or night time when it is dark, such is also a feature of the all-build environment. So placing streetlights so that they shed beautifully light to some tree, could maybe make life more peaceful and rekaxed in the evening and night time.

About how an army is possible

I am a woman and so I have always thought that an army is in these modern times quite as simple and straightforward question as in the old times: one just learns skills for life and if needed such are useful in the army too. But boys maybe in the beginning and maybe later too take army too much to their heart and so they start on their own all kinds of endeavours which ought to give high skills and military advantage in their opinion but which in practice just destroy the whole thing and maybe even make an army impossible. So how is an army possible? One ought not take a too big bite, not too demanding task, and one oguht to take care things things stay well in tehs ociety and get cured well again if they are not well. That means that one must ally with the civilized views of very many countries, not at their literal level but at the level of universal values and objectivity, at the levl of what the world largely is and what the good things are based on like trade for example. A very close contact is often a clash, so such is not advisable. Instead one should follow civiliced ways so much that they solve problems one otherwise would have. Instead of aiming at an unwincible army of high might, one ought to aim at having at least some kind of army or an attempt at defending a country and not at a mess to begin with, not at ruining everything already at peace time. Thta means having basic skills, for example being sporty and understanding about the things that are goals in the society.

Harmony

A ruler is not a boss

A king or whoever ruling is like a street maintenance unit arranging things for a certain area. People living on that area are not subordinates of them, even though they may respect the needs of that kind of work there. Likewise a gardener cares for a garden and is not a boss of those who visit the garden, even though the garden may be his/her kingdom, his/her opinions there respected but that's it, it is not a question of commanding.

Harmony born of oneself

I tried to compoose such

Beautiful things in the tough world

If the world sometimes seems too tough to allow well beautiful things and peaceful life according to feelings, pay attention to structures, look so that you see at the same time both the concretical structure that is important from the point of view of tough realism and of how things work in practice, and at the same time see the finer structure of the things, their atmospheres too, so that you know what they are like for skills and for life. So you can choose goo´d structures and your choices are good for skills too and for living your life and for life in the society and in the world, anmd so you can choose accprding to feelings, live a life according to feelings at the excuse of havimng followed tough realism.

A melody: peoples cooperating in European way

Thinking of peoples cooperating in Eiuropean ways, in harmony of individuals and cultures
Thinking of the Eurovision song contest brought this subject to my mind, aversion of singing in a choir.

"26th of February 2020   I was thinking of åepåle living in harmony in a way that is reflected in singing in a choir, or learned from it, and thought of people from different continents singing, but I do not know what it affected that it was just a thought.
There are three parts in this: 10/4 theory, 8/4 practice and 8/4 ideals.
Was thinking of the harmony of the choir, not nedessarily of it's melody.Could it work out as chords accoimpment?

5th of March 2020 These three parts would beif I remember right: 1. rationally, 2. in practical chores, 3. ideals. I wrote also fourth part and it would be: 4. collecting these to living ordinarily. It is half-notes: E, A, F and C.
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https://composingmelodies.blogspot.com/2020/02/cooperating-in-european-way.html

22th of March 2020
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A bird in a tree outside this apartment house I live in, asked for a similar harmony for birds, so I made thsi melody for them:

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https://composingmelodies.blogspot.com/2020/02/cooperating-in-european-way.html


 

Wishing well for the world is benefical

Listen to your sensations, compare how well do not feel and especially what you estimate how your health would develop in the near future, would you fall ill and/or get into accidents or feel well, if you either wished well for the world, kind of very beautifully with healthy spirit, and tried to follow that line in your life, even if that does not affect much, or did not care about the world and did not wish well for the world at large. Wishing well for the world makers one wished for the in the world, as if people would wish you to stay healthy, kind of feeling well because people like your course in the world, energetic and wihtout serious obstructions.

Freedom

Even if the society is the same and social relationships not friendlier, people can have different amounts of freedom to do what they want. Typically the society wants to arrange good life possible for all the ounger generations, and for the older too, so the ordinary official options to choose one's profession, hobbies, place of living, spouce, social relationships and walues as far as they fit into a society, are intended by the older, more experienced generations to be real options, real possibilities to choose what one wants. That is why one ought not choose some social style or social classification which says that one ought not invest in the official options at all, but instead, regardless of what one otherwise chooces, use the official possibilities for choosing fully. But that does not always work out, since one needs extra skills or socially likable style or the like, but anyway one has in those occasions the support of the older generations' woisdom.
http://todreamjob.blogspot.com
https://healthilymoral.blogspot.com/2011/08/world-is-of-love.html
About one's possibility to choose freely hobbies etc, as far as those are fit into the society, the Finnish rule "Live and let others live" helps a lot: https://finnishskills.blogspot.com/2012/10/live-and-let-others-live.html

Two texts: angels and devils

Angels

"Tuesday, October 16, 2018

Angels or the voice of what fits the human (& animal) nature

I somehow got stuck in the English version od my text about gnomes or gnome like fascination of things in modern town life. I wonder if that is because Finns tend to question tale like things and figure out explanations to them in ways which would support good life with good spirit at large if cultivated such. So instead of no tales we end up with something that has a good spirit but that is not exactly the same as the tale, but is much more long lasting tahn just trying to lie the tale into reality. So if gnomes interest, what about angels then? Neither one is my hobby but I can try to explain something about angels too.
On the concretical level angels seem to refer to either birds or humans, but on the other hand more meaningful is what the angel does and what it is like. If something is like a great relief, in some cultures they call it a deed of an angel, but that is culture dependent since in some countries such names are benefical for the one who is so called, and in ohers harmful. It is also something like saying: "That is almost ytoo much, but well tank you for doing it." Which is maybe good in care professions: caring for a moment, when needed, doing good quality job,but then resting too, not overstarining if not necessarily needed. On the other hand in jobs like university and school there is the need to stay rational and to appear rational in the eyes of others, so that saying that something is too much or done only because of virtues of character, kind of takes away the strenght in one'sd words, is not convincing, doe snot seem to fit as a rule to concern all.
Deeds of angels are thought to be quite or even very strenous and that is why those are thanked for, strenous but needed. How is it possible to do such without getting too tired to do such? If one needs strenght, healthy natural ages old ways of living are a good choise then. And healthy natural ways of living are what is good for getting cured and for getting a good life also in other matters, so that choice is aöready much of what the others need from an "angel". Making such good choices, such changes in one's ways of living toward better, makes one typically more sensitively observing, more fine tuned, and on the other hand such sensitive taking things into account is much of what considerate ways people need from an "angel".
Sometimes not at all moral people wish to be called sometimes an angel, so that they could take it as position over more moral individuals, so it is important to notice that an angel usually cares for single individual's need, which is in a hierargy in the society or in the world not at all as high as moral individuals."

"Tuesday, October 16, 2018

Devils and following different wanting in the same action as the others

This text is the third in a series of gnomes & angels.
As far as I know, there are several types of devils. ypical to them is that they follow some other goalsetting and some other values than the others in the group that terms them devils, values that do not cultivate at all the things the others care about. So the social group has accepted the "devil" in a too deep way to be a part of the group, a more distant relationship would typically have solved the problem. On the other hand the devil does something toward his own goals but mistakenly spreads the effect over a so large group that it causes harm to others, either to the things they do or to their lives or to the possibilities of good life in the socviety. There are two typical reasons for this: either the devil considers evil deeds soldier like handsomeness or then he/she wants to restrict his/her life to a certain profession but mistakenly competes in influence with others interested in other areas of life while he/she should have instead left those subject and the wider areas to be ruled by society's civilized ways and the work of each profession on it's area of life. Sometimes such misunderstandings get caused by school emphasizing engineering like ways to think without mentioning that they belong to engineering and are not fitted to ruling the world."


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A third text: Christmas   
These are from my tale figures blog attempt


 Christmas
Gnomes belong to Christmas, some angel decorations too but devils not, but maybe when one associates too closely with family members, they maybe get nearer than what is good for oneself and for the relations to work, but on the other hand during Christmas all are in a good mood and so they get better along the couple of days needed before one typically meets friends again and goes to hobbies. Good food, traditions, presents, some religion, being with the weather and caring for winter skills and of course good will bring pleasantness to the Christmas. On the dark winter days in November and December such celebration is dearly needed. Also school and work are a bigger burden then and it is nice to make Christmas preparations, presents, handiworks and eat some cookies.
I have written of weather skills at http://finnishskills.blogspot.com/2014/11/living-with-seasons.html and of curing illnesses at http://curingguesses.blogspot.com/2017/07/headers-translated.html . Handiworks are also a nice hobby http://learntalents.blogspot.com . Good food brings warmth to depressed or squeezed people http://learntalents.blogspot.com/2017/10/about-cooking.html . All people do not rise to their full potential in school or work but instead during free time and via wider interests and hobbies & good will, and so the society rises to better life with greater wisdom via prayer and liberal-minded good will and wider civilized ways and with healthy spirit. Songs too serve to rise the level of wisdom of life and the ability to trust feelings with wisdom. 

A leader is not responsible of subordinate's deeds

As a kid I wanted to be a leader in the future. Other kids said that if I for example as a captain in a war commanded my subordinates, I ought to carry responsibility about what they do and not the subordinates themselves, and they widened it to that they do not need to carry any responsibility themselves. At that age I agreed that when one commands subordinates ina war, one causes what they do if they obey the command, and so the one commanding should carry responsibility about what one commands, but I did not think that subordinates would not need have any responsibility themselves.
Now as an adult I think that one needs to carry responsibility about what one causes and about the quality of what one does and about the values that one respects, regardless of whether one is an subordinate or commands others. People cause things also in more slight ways than commanding. And usually people do not follow orders in a straightforward way but isntead use their own understanding, which of course is a good thing but demands responsibility, beautiful enough values. So if one for example causes some tendency, one ought to carry responsibility of it's consequences. Or if one chooces a certain tactique, one ought to carry responsibility over how it changes things and what it causes. Etc.

Honesty is important

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365. Usually accusations, harm etc are very harmful to those who do not have any tendency to such but are instead very different themselves, since if they get such harm, all think that it is some major error in how things are in the world, something like a sign of the end of the world or of the old ways&values in the society, and so they think that they cannot cure such a big thing. While if such is accused or harm done to a person who has a quite big tendency to such faults herself/himself, then she/he and all her/his aquiantages are ready for such, they have well working ways to cure the situation to wise ways and their pictures of the world and their social eye stay unharmed."
https://virtualpicturesoftheworld.blogspot.com/

Tranquil harmony

I wonder if tranquil harmony isn't like a master being skilled, protecting things, since such is somewhat like a continuous fight. It is more likely that tranquil harmony is something you meet if you are quite much just some wheel in the workings of the working place, and then if there is some place like a sauna quite near by with some greenery too, where you can take a sauna bath with your family, kids runnning around in the lawn. Then you are protected by civiliced wisdom, civiliced ways, but do not command, ruin things, insterad you have some wisdom of life and a moment for your family, somehow the pleasantness supported by traditional ways.

But it is also so that if you are in harmony with the nature of things and with the nature of people, like living a healthy kind of life wiuth healthy spirit and having a positive view toward free time, likings, people's own deeper understanding, ideals and the like. Then you can have tranquil harmony also if you are more skilled than others, and kind of be one tune to helplives in the environment to pleasant wise ways.

Piece of melody about moral

I tried to put in note form what kind of approach makes moral quite easy, kind of softens it, makes it such that it isn't a burden at all.

Problem solving methods (links)

http://finnishskills.blogspot.com/2012/10/live-and-let-others-live.html

http://finnishskills.blogspot.com/2013/04/rationally-grounded-moral.html

http://2013paradise.blogspot.com/2017/08/basics-of-my-paradise-theory.html

 http://healthilymoral.blogspot.com/2011/08/world-is-of-love.html

https://healthilymoral.blogspot.com/

https://healthilymoral.blogspot.com/2019/05/short-melody-reaching-for-harmony.html

https://healthilymoral.blogspot.com/2019/09/my-method-of-solving-large-scale.html

http://learntalents.blogspot.com/2018/09/gnomes-or-more-likelily-doing-things-in.html

A text in Finnish language

"Ketä vastaan ja kenen puolesta soditaan

Helsingissä asuessani vaikutti siltä, että nuorten miesten maanpuolustustahto oli olematon ja että olivat jotenkin hahmottaneet väärin koko kysymyksen, pahantekoon innostuen.
Itsenäisestä valtiosta on se hyöty, että se tarjoaa asukkailleen paremmat elämänmahdollisuudet, sekä sivistyksensä että kulttuurinsa avulla. Jos jostakin ulkomaasta tulee paljon vaikutetta ja etenkin jos se määrää kotimaisten tahojen ylitse, niin tapoja, joilla asiat järjestetäänja miten eletään,e i saada säädettyä paikallisten tarpeiden mukaan vaan ne säätyvät ainakin osin tuolta ulkomaasta, ja se voi joissakin tapauksissa olla hyväksi, milloin tuota kulttuurivaikutetta ja yhteistyötä halutaan, ja joissakin tapauksessa se voi olla haitaksi, ja silloin yritetään saada enemmän etäisyyttä siihen maahan, ja jos se on kovin suureksi haitaksi, niin sitä yritetään vastustaa jopa sodankin keinoin, koska sota silloin koetaan peinemmäksi haitaksi, mutta se merkitsee, että kyseessä ovat isot olennaiset elämäntavan ja järjestelyjen piirteet eikä jotkin pikkujutut.
Nykymaailmassa ydinpommien olemassaolo on aiheuttanut sen, että käsitys sodankäynnistä on muuttunut varovaisemmaksi ja pasifismiin pyrkivämmäksi, mistä on se ongelma, että ongelmia ja ei-toivotulla tavalla käyttäytyviä ulkomaalaisia siedetään maailmassa turhankin paljon, ja niin jokin rauha, eheys, ennallaan pysyminen, tavallinen elämä kärsii siitä sun tästä sabotaasista, josta osa on sitä, että yksilö on tullut liian kauaksi kulttuurista, jonka tavalla haluaisi elää, ja osa taas johtuu siitä, että kun kulttuuri ei ole ollut kyllin vapautta tukeva ja muutoille otollinen, niin moni on jäänyt paikkaan tai sosiaaliseen lokeroon, jonka kokee ikeenä, jota haluaa vastustaa, sen sijaan, että olsii uskaltanut tehdä isot elämänvalinnat kuten ammatti, asuinmaa, asuinpaikka ja rakastamansa puoliso omien aitojen toiveidensa mukaan,niin kuin tervehenkistä on. Kun ihmiset eivät ole uskaltaneet tehdä omia elämänvalintoja avoimesti, esim. ammatti ja ystävät, niin heidän ymmärryksensä' siitä, miksi toiset ovat sellaisia kuin ovat, ja miksi ja mitä he ovat itse asiassa valinneet, on jäänyt heikommaksi, ja niin moni ei ymmärrä vastakkaista sukupuolta paljoakaan, esim. että miksi se on olemassa ja sallitaan, vaan jokin kuviossa painaa heitä kovin, kai siksi, etteivät ole haavepaikkakunnallaan ja haaveammattien kanssa, joidenparissa viihtyvät. Tämä on yksi esimerkki vahingollisesta, ilmeisestio ulkomaisen kulttuurivaikutteen myötä tulleesta piirteestä, jonka vahingollisuus ei ole kaikille heti selvä.
Ulkomaista puheen ollen mainitaan usein kliseitä. Jotta Suomi isomman maan vieressäolisi itsenäinen käytännössä, on mainittava, että Suomi puolustautuu Venäjää vastaa myös tarpeen tullen aseellisesti. Sem sijaan pienemmistä tai etäisemmistä maista ei ole niin tarpeen sitä mainita. Etenkin, kun kansainvälinern matkailu on nykymaailmassa kovin vaivatonta, voi kulttuurin elinoloja heikentäviä uhkia tulla kauempaakin, ja ne ovat silloin usein muuta kuin perinteinen sota,pikemminkin tervehenkisyydellä puolustettavia kuin tarkalleen artikuloidusti etukäteen tunnistettuja, ja pikemminkin sosiaalisen elämän ja sosiaalisen silmän arvovalintoihin liittyvän tervehenkisyyden tajun varassa kuin kovin klisheemäisesti tai vain rajalla."

My method of solving large scale problems

I have been interested in solving large scale problems of the world for years and also learned some method that often works well. I have lots of experience and skills in objectuve thinking.
One should see what are the parts of the situation, it's main elements. And then observe each of them in their natural place in the world, undisturbed from their ordinary context and their ordinary life, ways of thinking etc. That is a way to understand them. Then one should place them each to their right place in a well working healthily build society, it's daily life. And that often works out as a solution: well working society, ordinary daily life and the elements as parts of it. But it demands a good view of what a well working society is like. Often one can find the correct place of an element by thinking via the ages old healthy natural ways of living and being a part of a society and of the wide world, and placing the element seen in the light of these values to it's right civiliced place in the society and the world.

http://2013paradise.blogspot.com/2017/08/basics-of-my-paradise-theory.html
http://finnishskills.blogspot.com/2012/10/live-and-let-others-live.html
https://finnishskills.blogspot.com/2013/04/rationally-grounded-moral.html
https://finnishskills.blogspot.com/2015/11/healthy-ways-of-living.html
http://healthilymoral.blogspot.com

Interest in space travel makes one much more stupid, some cures to it

See http://mythoughtsaboutnews.blogspot.com/2019/07/too-much-influence-from-engineering.html

I copy it here:
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Too much influence from engineering around the world

Last Sunday 21th of July 2019 it was 50 years since man first set foot on the Moon. It seems that just about all around the world watched the video from that. And so all got lots of influence from engineering, also from others, since the day was the same for all. 50 years ago that was a big change in pictures of the world, I guess, but now it is just a piece of news. Yet surprisingly many are interested in space travel or in engineering, and so the effect lasts for some time, while 50 years ago it lasted the whole 1970's or so.
So I guess that one needs effective means of smallening the amount of influence from engineering. The first advice is of course that one should not oneself be so interested in engineering, not classify it so important. In addition one ought to avoid in terest ins space travel, conversations in engineering style or about engineering, take distance to people who term engineering important, etc. And for oneself, one ought to learn skills in other areas of life, and do it with good quality, from the beginning too, since engineerting often disturbs one's abilities of observation, and so one should be interested in looking complex natural landscapes with a  good eyesight, a good understanding and the sense of atmosphere tones.
 For those who want more distance to engineering, my blog http://todreamjob.blogspot.com might help. Also my long text "Gnome like life in the modern world" http://learntalents.blogspot.com/2018/09/gnomes-or-more-likelily-doing-things-in.html might fit some.
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22.8.2019
Generally to stuck head in some work that handles practical things, maybe helps a branch of a tree to look at, since it has more varied natural rythms in it's shape. About learning thinking skills, see http://quickerlearning.blogspot.com