School was not honwst or not kniwledgeable enough in how big part of adult humans have gone to school which would have taught them the basic skills for lufe in a viviliced society. So in adult lufe social situations often turn to someone commanding things without regard for what school would have said of the wisr values to follow. Then it is often so that the one commanding against social customs does not feel oneself able to follow school lesrning in such a siyuation and so overruns it by social skills and force because wants a solution that is more comfortable for oneself. Such people invlude
1) older persons whose skill level has lowered too much because if lack of interdsted practise in basic skills like looking, moving, thinkibg, remembering facts etc.
2) foreigners ( some elderly too ) from far away cultures and climates who have thought to catch thibgs in the air without having practise in school like things, and so they arrange social excuses for their lacks by bypassing the rights of locals who follow rules laws, customs etc while the foreigners just associate something that might appear like the local culture
3) the ill, often suffering from not being tuned to only the local climate, who are kind of exhausted, outside their comfortable zone of sleepy action, and so they vommand like skriik those often younger ones who are more healthy and active, even though yhe ill cannot handle the active thibgs, does not have enough wisdom for them
As I have tried to learn to understand why things happen like they happen, and especially relations between cultures, my impression is that if something fine and valuable does not work out or get protected, most of the others are as if ill, they just stumble to a chair and collapse to it, unable to take others into account, unable to rise to finery, unable to take things wisely into account.
In the news it was told of a Swedish family which moved to live in the border of Finland and Russia. Or then it was someone from the Finnish capital district who liked Sweden. Anyway they fell trees and maybe killed peaceful wanderers with old times tools, and they themselves seemed somewhat like from engineering background, and so they srranged everything as if for Swedish rule, while that ruined the only area in the world where somewhat Kalevala like ways of luving are dtill followed, or have ever been. Kalevala is famous, but it is followed only somewhere in the world. Thst is the natural place for it, even though it is much liked also elsewhere. Sweden is also famous but of course different, and it too is mostly followed only in Sweden and somewhat in the Swedisd speaking wedt coast of Finland. That is it's natural place. Conquering areas does not make the cultural demand greater. In Finland there has been Swedish ingöuence for hundreds of years, yet Finland is an edge nation if a big nation while Sweden is a fascinating looking small nation among small nations. In Finland Finns typically could choose Swedish ways but point sfter point they cjoose the bedt alternatives and those sre usually Finnish. If the man wants Swedish ways, he ought to move to Sweden, or if milder more Finnush version of them then to the wesyern coast of Finland. And if he is an engineer looking gor nature, go find that too in Sweden. Generally if it is diffivult for engineers to get to nayure, one family ouhht not take so much precious room in the naturd, but instead live so that they create the same possibility for others too.
I wonder if this means that the problem if glibal warming is already largely solved. We have ecocars, so is it a communucation problem, or what is still lacking? Tryingtosolveglobalwarming.blogspot.com
I just listened to a song in the radio and realized why I have been o slow and dum for the last two and a half years: some wise somewhere are mourning the nuclear war that New Year. Maybe they are elderly and don't know why things went so unwisely, and so they keep a pause and went for things to clear, for the younger ones to find again common sense and civiliced wisdom.
But here some of my thoughts about continuing after nuckear war.
If some major cities, or even many, got destroyed, that affects the world a lot more than just erasing those away. Modern migrations of peoples force one to explain environmental conditions and cultural wisdom to people coming from entirely different environments and backgrounds. (see Finnishskills.blogspot.com and E11. in learntalents.blogspot.com )
"I 110. I do not always understand the news and what the world is like.
For example people in the usa look dark in atmosphere as if they had
list New York abd California in nuclear bombings, maybe other places too
destroyed around NY. When some place us lost you cannot rely on that
place's local culture anymore, and tge differencies between towns etc
are huge. But I guess that those places in usa got bombed because they
sound important, so ut is not the same with culture of usa which I guess
has good sides that are still longed for."
One version of continuing onwards is to live a quite local life and wish well in the world at large, following civiliced wisdom. My e-book about the Skills of Christmas gnomes learntalents.blogspot.com could offer one road to suych and to a more content life,but happiness in it demands emphasizing the healthy ways of living and doing and civiliced wisdom.
"B17. 28th of January 2020 If there is something big wrong in the
world, one often gains a quite serene place if one does not spend much
time pondering about it and worrying but instead tries on one's own
behalf to not to worsen the situation at all, whatever it is, and that
means following civilized wisdom, living an ordinary life and doing
positive things."
* One problem is if something maybe happened to children, maybe got murdered in school. I do not have children of my own, but at least some children one can see. School via internet seemed to erase some of the worst problems of school since individual learning is possible when needed, and somewhat fat kids via good food and maybe some bakery can bear school years better. My text about giving birth https://curingguesses.blogspot.com/2017/07/about-giving-birth-knee-ball-misplaced.html also brings a positive sense that new babies are born.
20th of September 2021 If the world is of spirit and life after death is like life esrlier, then one could maybe undo atom bombs by synchronizing lives after death.
The impression of ( all new?) atom bomb destruction has been of volcanic lava, which I guess means hydrogen bombs.
16th of October 2021 If I understood right, this song and video is also a view of how to live after nuclear war:
" 1st of September 2021 Money for music or for a puppy that one likes or for the poor and quite poor, money for food, money for farmers who lack money, etc, money for buying a white curing (nurse oriented or the like) animal friend, money for living around voluntary labour for religiously motivated good causes, money for sports, recreation in nature and hobbies, etc, see I 105. in this text about the skills of Christmas gnomes learntalents.blogspot.com . The idea was curing by my Finnish blog parantamisesta.blogspot.com , partially translated at curingguesses.blogspot.com , by reading aloud or by email or chat copying and pasting primarily from the index but also the needed texts. Paying only if gets cured inside 5min, payment some 20%of local medicine centre basic fee per cured illness, special pay for miracle cures. But I do not have the possibility for such since I am already too much in the subject because of having written the blog.
It sometimes happens that some foreigners ruin good life and achievements in your own country whennthey want their own vountry win in those and think that you have sgainst judtice dtolen their chances. But then it often is so that in theur own country they do not have thosr things as major goals and that is why they don't have them and that is why someone wanting such values gets classigied tobyour country, and since they insist something like thst to be added to their original country thry appear to have in that a fight between vountries, whennit in fact is judt the one or few persons misbehavibg snd dedtroying localnpossibilities for life.
My Easy quick school for animals at learntalents.blogspot.com E11. could be useful for humans too to study. And the rest of the long blog text teaches skills and talents. Could this help peace?
" The space a person looks likevhaving is usually the area she/he xarries responsibility over and not his/her rights&power, it is what the person does & thinks thst moment or ordinarily. How high some person appears to be, depends on who made the markings, and usually one has oneself instinctually made such marking on some good grounds and later has just forgotten what the reason was. Typically high skills in the area of life in question and wishing well in large scale things get marked high."
When I studied in the University of Helsinki, one of my study pals there, possibly from Asia, was very much afraid of the use of mobile phones to spy people and control them so. I do not so much know about that, a nasty subject, but think if you were wanted to your own dream life, for example dream profession, you would have a place there, safety and support. So please consider moving to live in a town which draws people by givibg such possibilities in just those professions. Please read my blogs todreamjob.blogspot.com and Skills of Christmas gnomes learntalents.blogspot.com .
"G62. 4th of March 2021 I have given my pets position in a good well
working way, the same way I give to others, regardless of age, sex,
species etc, both to humans and animals and possible other beings. Each
one gets position according to how much understanding and skills they
have and how moral they are in the questions etc affected, i.e. one
ought to affect toward good of the world and of the society and of the
persons, both humans and animals, affected. My poodle Banjo has
typically had a good position since he has had 12 years time to learn
and adapt to this and he has a good understanding and good will, is
interested in the things affected and is considerate and good willing
toward others. But in giving position one needs to make safety
precautions if someone has not been good enough earlier always, and also
if one does not know something for sure. If your skills are not high
enough to estimate something, you cannot give high position based on
that, but instead just say that it might be but you cannot estimate
since your skills are not enough. Generally I think that such position
just exists according to justice, it is not exactly ginen by someone,
even though one must be considerate toward those affected."
About avoiding a situation turning to a fight if one is alone. Each
(even aggressive seeming) person has typically a normal everyday life
and it's courses are kind of tracks that he/she is in, and going along
those tracks but as somewhat mild or nondangerous version, typically
gets situations run well, without conflicts and with good communocation
if one oneself is in civiliced ways and functions naturally that way, in
civiliced harmony with the environment, yet with quite distant social
relationships and only a short encounter.
A high position in the sense of having an important job, often means that such individual's life is somehow restricted. The job determines a lot about it and so it does not have so much freedom like ordinary people have. So influencies from polityicians, priests, and other people with an important job, maybe restrict one's possibilities to choose freely in one's life what to do and what to be like, even if one aims at being fit into the society.
A high position in the sense of being moral and skilled isn't such a job. It gives lesspossibilities to affect large scale things but leaves one's rights as a citizen untouched. If some such big things needs safeguarding, such is the right of all who behave morally in it and in skilled enough ways.
E16. 30th of September 2020 Boys and men being malicious toward
girls and women is at least partly a question of thinking that boys and
men are forced to get themselves killed in a war while women and girls
not. But that is not quite so, since the benefit for a country of men
going to war is to defend the country, to defend the good sides of it's
way of life, circumstancies, values, for of government, skill level etc.
And that in practice means that they have to have a some kind of army
that is alive. A man getting killed in the war is no longer useful to
one's country, so ´getting killed is not at all the idea of having an
army. There are several ways of avoiding people getting killed. One is
to avoid war but not at all costs. Another is to have so much skills
that one does not automatically get killed, and here one must remember
that you must invest on the skills of your own country instead of
sticking to the skills levels of other countries, since those have
different strenghts to help them. And you can fiught milder, not at all
costs but instead in wise ways that respoect values and that safeguard
against betrayals, traps, lies etc. So an army ought not be a question
of getting killed, there is just the danger of dying and that is why one
should count on skills and on the strenghts learned from civilian life,
and not do stupid deeds. When kids are young, they rae typically asked
if they would like to go to the military service when they are young
adults, and typically boys always answer that they want to go to the
army while girls say that they do not want since it is planned just for
boys, but maybe they too want to keep such option available. So as older
they are just asked, do you still want to go to the military service,
have ýou so decided? It is important to have skills for life, but in a
society that means also that those with skills have to take care of such
things for the whole country, like is wise. But military matters
interest just about all, so all have some kind of opinions and tactis
an´bout them, but the opinions differ and so differ the tactics too, and
so men and women choose different roads in life even though they all
need to take care of the military things too, but being commanded by
young boys isn't the way for a country to defend well. "
As far as I know Russian tsar when he ruled was an individual interested in the upbringing of children and in getting people to do their work in a good quality way and to carry responsibility as parts of the nation. For that purpose when the tsar travelled he did or bought something done in a good quality way or otherwise so that it would make the local people do work in a good qualiuty way, use their own understanding and carry responsibility as parts of the nation - and this oughty to have been so that they in turn would have got other similarly to the right tracks for the nation to work well and people be healthy happy and free´ina civilized way. But I guess that this meant that the tsar did not have much power to command, more likely to listen to what professionals and wise people with common sense say. And the big things like trans-Siberian railway were propably the needs of the time by the opinion of many professionals and tsar was just the figure head in them, in a good quality way so as to get the nation to work well. And as such it maybe does not matter so much that he is not in power, but it disturbs the nation a lot if such deeds are opposed and not valued. Children upbringing is important for the nation and for the wide world, for the people themselves, for their happiness and possibilites in life, for what the society develops to in what comes to the quality of life and the skill level and wisdom in use.
29th of August 2020 A picture from a brochure of the fishing hut of the Russian tsar in Kotka in southern Finland.
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D12. 6th of August 2020 Some women create social tangles by how they
associate with men and especially boys. They kind of like their ways and
so they drown to each subject so that they lose sight of rationality
and good quality and moral and the guidelines of bringing up children,
and so they may end up in a danger of being beaten. If one wants to
understand men and boys, one ought not drown in each subject of
conversation but instead pay attention to what is the other poerson's
way of thinking, see it as one picture as a aprt of one's thoughts/view,
and see how good thinking ability the other one has: what he observes
and what not, and what kinds of things he always errs in. In addition
one ought to know his situation of life, what are the major factors in
it, what kinds of social situations he tends to have and what tends to
happen in them and what he so chooses as his tactic and what it leads
to. And what kind of social pressure there is on him, what kind of place
offered, in use, what he considers an imago question and how he handles
such and what he so takes care of and what not,what does the situation
look in his eyes and what objectively, what in the eyes of others. And
so what is the society like and how are important things taken care of.
D13. Some men do not understand women. The reason is that they think
that all women are roughly alike and try to search for some common
womanhood and so think that all women have all other women's
characteristics, and that of course does not work out! Women aren't so
complex. And individual differencies are typically bigger than the
differencies between women and men. Different women are mostly
characterised by the country, climate and culture they themselves are
from, and what areas of life they personally feel inclined toward, and
what are their skill levels, values and type of social relationships,
and what professionm they are in and what situation of life they have in
the biggest respects. Often men also confuse different types of women
to be the same person, or alike because of profession even if they have
different ways and different types of major hobbies, likings etc."
Some women do lot of evil, and often the reason for that is that they would like work like men's work, but when they are given such, they want something else, for example more social or wider ins cope, but refuse call it some other version, and so they again are given very boring men's work and so they get tired in a day or so and quit. They should pay attention to what expressions are used of each choice about w´how to do work, and change the exporession to suit their present view of what kind of work they want.
My mom liked her work a lot. And she had blue jeans, quite worn but without holes, quite nice looking, somewhat female but kept much like some men might keep theirs and not very finely. She also had a kind of ball shaped woolen shirt with dots (single knitted loops) of another colour. She had a hair almost to the shoulders witrh sorter above the eyes. It was kind of man like yet recignisedly female, very work oriented. She enjoyed her work very much.
What rights a person has is based on behaving ways fit into a society, morally that is and with healthy common sense, objectively. How much rights each person has depends on how much skills they have and how much responsibility they carry about each area of life and of the world. Also situations matter and one needs to take into account what the person himself/hetrself is like. If someone used to be evil in something, one needs to make lots of extra precautions before one has the right to influence such much like others. Also interests affect. If one has some influence from the more skilled, such does not bring as high skill as the skilled have ordinarily, and it does not fit together with one's whole picture of the world, one's work ethic, habits, values, inclination etc, and so it does not bring as high rights.
Also one needs to take into account what are the social relationships between persons. generally one has the right to affect one's own life in ways fit into the society, but not the lives of others, except fairly isok. If one likes some person, that person typically has the right to come near and live one's ife near by,while others cannot by copying or by classifications adopt the same rights. Humans and animals differ in characteristics, so that typically they have different rights, for example small animals often have the right to come so near that they are clearly seen, while humans would be too close that near. Animals and humans also do not share the same sphere of life, are not interested in the same things and so an animal passing by or in the company is often ok, does not affect much, while humans coming as near would be a nuisance since they want to mess with one's life.
I do not know much, if anything at all, about gorillas etc, but I have heard that in Africa in Congo there has been civil war of humans with gorillas. As far as I know apes are much like humans and not like the wild nature, so the relationships of humans with apes may be like relationships between humans. If anyway gorillas are classified as animals, some may neglect their basic rights as humans and be more likely to kill them by shooting or the like, and so the apes may take that as a personal threath and want ot conquer the arms etc. To such the cure would be civiliced liberal-minded behaviour that takes apes as one type of humans, and so the need of war would be smaller in the eyes of apes.
All differencies between character types are not fullt ime. Some may be hard at work but enjoy a comfortable sofa at home. That also creates understanding and communication ground between different types of persons.
If things get more criminal in evening or night time when it is dark, such is also a feature of the all-build environment. So placing streetlights so that they shed beautifully light to some tree, could maybe make life more peaceful and rekaxed in the evening and night time.
