Soft style and tough realism

If you have a moral, religious, friendly, good willing, emotional, beautiful or otherwise nice style, you may wonder what you should do when you meet nasty evil tough guys that are intent on attacking you. Then the situation clearly demands tough realism, so choose a healthy course in every sense, since that is sthe strongest and wisest tactic. If you can make healthy versions of your ordinary choises, healthy in every respect, then that allows you to keep your nice tactic and still be soldier like realistic.