Soft style and tough realism

If you have a moral, religious, friendly, good willing, emotional, beautiful or otherwise nice style, you may wonder what you should do when you meet nasty evil tough guys that are intent on attacking you. Then the situation clearly demands tough realism, so choose a healthy course in every sense, since that is sthe strongest and wisest tactic. If you can make healthy versions of your ordinary choises, healthy in every respect, then that allows you to keep your nice tactic and still be soldier like realistic.

Look at a tree while you ponder

Look at a tree while you ponder about any important matter or much influencing factor of your life, like a habit for example.
Looking at a tree while you ponder and choosing those thoughts and actions that feel most natural to you while you look at a tree, makes you more intelligent, socially wise, gives you wisdom of life, emtional wisdom etc. It makes you more successfull!

This way in practice

NOT like this: If you start by trying to be very moral, you still need to care for your own needs too and in most people that produces nasty counter movements to overly good willing primary arrangements. So those who start with compassion often end up being overly cruel.
Instead DO THIS: If you start by being purely selfish, preferably with a holistic view of the world, and only finish your deeds by making some quite small adjustments to your purely selfish plans so as to be roughly moral in major matters and fairly good willing toward others, you can often achieve almost perfect moral in practice without it being a burden of any kind.

Guarding moral (an observation)

Different people have different life situations and different social environments. Due to that they have different possibilities in life. They also need different amounts of different things. What one dearly needs a lot may be a horror to another without either one lying or pretending. For example the stupid need schooling while the intelligent ones do better when they can do things in their own ways.
People say no when they do not need something. If that does not stop the excess in that thing, they turn careless toward that thing. And if that either does not stop the excess, they turn hostile toward that thing in their lives and hostile toward those who try to force more of that to their lives. But if someone lacks something, they ask for it or try to arrange3 it otherwise and they feel very satisfied when they have it. If they lack it even more, they take it seriously, if needed, they will dedicate their whole lives into getting it and arranging that possibility in the world.
Since the needs of people differ, one should meet each person's needs separately and avoid offering any unwanted extra to anyone, especially if others need that thing, because otherwise those who have extra will sabotage the living possibilities of others. For example some people need rights to influence the society morally while others think such rights too trusting and naive and try to sabotage such rights away. The social position of each person should failry rerflect these kinds of differencies of who cultivates what, and who does not. The area that each person affecvts should not exceed the area that she7HE CARRIES RESPONSIBILITY OVER.

Paradise Game

Please try this game! It is a superb one. Recommend it also to others!

Paradise Game
The goal of the game: A paradise for all fairly
The game board: The whole world
The allowed moves: Whatever you can do in your life
Superb Prices: The winners get a paradise like life, really! This is true!

Please play!