Happy fat person

"   M18.   What being fat feels like and how it affects your life, depends on whether you ate good food like feels good, varying according to the situation  so that you have fat just the way you feel that you need at, so that the feeling of fat is somewhat like a nice summer day or life with pleasant music too, so that you feel good but do not need to give up your thinking. Or did you eat somehow in a wrong way, not able to eat less and melt fat in the spring time, so thst you feel cumbersome and exhausted. What has surprisdd me is that you need to eat because slmebody else you thought about needs a meal, but it does make life easier and situations lighter, but then you are also more fat.    "

From my text Skills of Christmas gnomes learntalents.blogspot.com 

Hyökkäilyn laanuttamisesta

 Minulla on tavannut olla ongelmana, että ihmiset hyökkäilevät kimppuuni niin sosiaalisessa elämässäni, hhteiskunnassa liikkuessani kukn jollakin he kisellä tai hengellisellä puolella. Iso osa tästä ln ilkeilyä, vahingoittamusenhalua, kilpailua  suorittamista  valheita ja näyttelemustä, jonkinlsisen aseman kiipimistä, usein hyvän ja pahan kiloailuksi bäitettyä mutta se sflitys tuntuu kumouavan jostakin aiemmasta elämästä kaukaisilla ilklmailla. Viime ailoina olen kuitenkin saanut selville jo monta isoa syytä, jotja rstkomalla ovat ongelmat laantuneet. Syitä ovat ainakin: 

* hyökkäileväisemlä liian ohuet vaatteet kuin kesävaatteet, samaa kantaa ilmapiirin puolella eläimen turkki likainen jolloin tarttee kehottaa se pesfmään turkkinsa huolella ja kuivaamaan se pöyheäksi

* hyökkääjä sairas kuin sairasvuoteella ja komentelee muita syyllä ei älkää olkas hiöjaa en kestä, mutta käyttääkin sen tarkoitukselluseen pahantekoon ja valta-aseman saamiseen, mutta pahanteonhalu voi olla sairaan yli kapasiteetin menevien asiouden vihaa, piittaamattomuutta niistä

* eläimille varatun paikam viemistä, esim eläin antaa sen samantapaisem tyyluselle ihmiselle, mistä tulee riita

* sairas liikkeellä jotta edes joku olisi aktiivinen  ja niin iso osa asiousta menee skriik dkrääk yli kapasiteetin ja ihminen vai teoillasn juitoo jotakkn tappelevaista dinne kauemmas

* kateus suomalaisia kohtaan mutta syynä onkin esim internetin blogger.com mahdollisuus joka on ilmaisrksi lähes joka maassa, tai aikuinen kateellinen lukutaidosta 

* vastaavasti omaan ravinnontarpeeseen nähden liian kevyt ruoka aiheuttaa tiuskivaisuudeksi liokiteltua aggressiivisuutta, jossa kuitenkin ln usein metsästämisen piirteitä

* usein ihmiset ryhtyvät ammattiin, joka heidtä on aikaansaannoksissaan mahtava, ja silloin onnudeim kyse siitä, että he itse kaipaavat sellaista apua elämäänsä enemmän kuin muut, jolloin heti jos joku ryhtyy puuhaamaan jonkjn hoitoon toimittamists, niin pitäisi ottaa selvää, onko ko joitoalan ammattilainen niin sairas, että hänen omien vaivojensa hoitamisen tärkeys tuo tärkeyden tunyua, jonka hän valehtelee tai erehtyy lulemaan, että muut tarvitsisivat välitöntä hoitolnpäädyä

* jos jollakkn ln tavallusdsti edellytettävä aikuusten perustaitotaso jäänyt kovin puutteellisrksi, niin hän usrin on oppi ut siihen liittyvät tyypilliset tilanteet, niiden kuviot, ja niin esim koulua vaille jääneet tai vain ekan luokan verran osaavat aikuiset toimittavat seurastaan lapsia ja nuoria 9-12 vuodrn kouluun, vaikka kai aikuisten oletettaisiin voivan oppia itse nooeammassa ajassa sen, mitä koulua tarvitsisivat, ja lapset taas usein ovat ihan hyväpäisiä

* ihmiset haluavat usein tuttaviensa vahvuuksia esim oppia tämän harrastuksesta jotakin tai tutustua tämän kuehtovadti harrastineeseen äitiin, eli näitä asiouta ja ihmidiä ei tule lisätä tuon tutun elämään ellei hän nikn toivo  vasn tulisi tarjota jotakin sentapaista kuehtovaa tutuntutuille. 

Lisäksi ärtyisyyttä ja raskassoutuisuutta voi aiheuttaa, kunnihmisillä on omassa elämässään huolta, mihin on tuntunut auttavan, kun uuden kännykkäni lähialuejaossa on ollut kome blogiani : 1. Www.parantaminen.info eli parantamisesta.blogspot.com , 2. https://finnishskills.blogspot.com/2014/11/living-with-seasons.html ja kumma kyllä myös tonttutaitokirjoitukseni learntalents.blogspot.com .

If there us a swamp of things

 If there is a swamp like situation, a good strategy is to invest in things thst carry always, in all situation and that means civkliced wisdom, especially theoretical ideals of good quality like healthy natural ages old ways of living on all areas of life, and letting each one live their own life in peace like the rule "Live and let others live" advices. A too big and varied group, like the whole world, is one possible area of application. 

Objective thinking with pictures of wholes and with healthy common sense is also very useful, likewise wisdom of life. 

Social situations

 School was not honwst or not kniwledgeable enough in how big part of adult humans have gone to school which would have taught them the basic skills for lufe in a viviliced society. So in adult lufe social situations often turn to someone commanding things without regard for what school would have said of the wisr values to follow. Then it is often so that the one commanding against social customs does not feel oneself able to follow school lesrning in such a siyuation and so overruns it by social skills and force because wants a solution that is more comfortable for oneself. Such people invlude 

1) older persons whose skill level has lowered too much because if lack of interdsted practise in basic skills like looking, moving, thinkibg, remembering facts etc. 

2) foreigners ( some elderly too ) from far away cultures and climates who have thought to catch thibgs in the air without having practise in school like things, and so they arrange social excuses for their lacks by bypassing the rights of locals who follow rules  laws, customs etc while the foreigners just associate something that might appear like the local culture

3) the ill, often suffering from not being tuned to only the local climate, who are kind of exhausted, outside their comfortable zone of sleepy action, and so they vommand like skriik those often younger ones who are more healthy and active, even though yhe ill cannot handle the active thibgs, does not have enough wisdom for them

What ruins things

 As I have tried to learn to understand why things happen like they happen, and especially relations between cultures, my impression is that if something fine and valuable does not work out or get protected, most of the others are as if ill, they just stumble to a chair and collapse to it, unable to take others into account, unable to rise to finery, unable to take things wisely into account. 

Conquering versus natural areas

 In the news it was told of a Swedish family which moved to live in the border of Finland and Russia. Or then it was someone from the Finnish capital district who liked Sweden. Anyway they fell trees and maybe killed peaceful wanderers with old times tools, and they themselves seemed somewhat like from engineering background, and so they srranged everything as if for Swedish rule, while that ruined the only area in the world where somewhat Kalevala like ways of luving are dtill followed, or have ever been. Kalevala is famous, but it is followed only somewhere in the world. Thst is the natural place for it, even though it is much liked also elsewhere. Sweden is also famous but of course different, and it too is mostly followed only in Sweden and somewhat in the Swedisd speaking wedt coast of Finland. That is it's natural place. Conquering areas does not make the cultural demand greater. In Finland there has been Swedish ingöuence for hundreds of years, yet Finland is an edge nation if a big nation while Sweden is a fascinating looking small nation among small nations. In Finland Finns typically could choose Swedish ways but point sfter point they cjoose the bedt alternatives and those sre usually Finnish. If the man wants Swedish ways, he ought to move to Sweden, or if milder more Finnush version of them then to the wesyern coast of Finland. And if he is an engineer looking gor nature, go find that too in Sweden. Generally if it is diffivult for engineers to get to nayure, one family ouhht not take so much precious room in the naturd, but instead live so that they create the same possibility for others too. 

About global warming

I wonder if this means that the problem if glibal warming is already largely solved. We have ecocars, so is it a communucation problem, or what is still lacking? Tryingtosolveglobalwarming.blogspot.com

After a nuclear war: For better life

 I just listened to a song in the radio and realized why I have been o slow and dum for the last two and a half years: some wise somewhere are mourning the nuclear war that New Year. Maybe they are elderly and don't know why things went so unwisely, and so they keep a pause and went for things to clear, for the younger ones to find again common sense and civiliced wisdom. 

But here some of my thoughts about continuing after nuckear war.

If the world is of spirit, the wise can continue with the wise, but the unwise cannot so easily avoid death. (see wakingfromdeath.blogspot.com and learntalents.blogspot.com )

If some major cities, or even many, got destroyed, that affects the world a lot more than just erasing those away. Modern migrations of peoples force one to explain environmental conditions and cultural wisdom to people coming from entirely different environments and backgrounds. (see Finnishskills.blogspot.com and E11. in learntalents.blogspot.com )

"I 110.   I do not always understand the news and what the world is like. For example people in the usa look dark in atmosphere as if they had list New York abd California in nuclear bombings, maybe other places too destroyed around NY. When some place us lost you cannot rely on that place's local culture anymore, and tge differencies between towns etc are huge. But I guess that those places in usa got bombed because they sound important, so ut is not the same with culture of usa which I guess has good sides that are still longed for."   

One version of continuing onwards is to live a quite local life and wish well in the world at large, following civiliced wisdom. My e-book about the Skills of Christmas gnomes learntalents.blogspot.com could offer one road to suych and to a more content life,but happiness in it demands emphasizing the healthy ways of living and doing and civiliced wisdom.

about nuclear bombs   https://mythoughtsaboutnews.blogspot.com/2020/02/about-nuclear-bombs.html

"B17.   28th of January 2020   If there is something big wrong in the world, one often gains a quite serene place if one does not spend much time pondering about it and worrying but instead tries on one's own behalf to not to worsen the situation at all, whatever it is, and that means following civilized wisdom, living an ordinary life and doing positive things."

A positive way of curing illnesses   curingguesses.blogspot.com

  

* One problem is if something maybe happened to children, maybe got murdered in school. I do not have children of my own, but at least some children one can see. School via internet seemed to erase some of the worst problems of school since individual learning is possible when needed, and somewhat fat kids via good food and maybe some bakery can bear school years better. My text about giving birth https://curingguesses.blogspot.com/2017/07/about-giving-birth-knee-ball-misplaced.html also brings a positive sense that new babies are born.

20th of September 2021   If the world is of spirit and life after death is like life esrlier, then one could maybe undo atom bombs by synchronizing lives after death. 

The impression of ( all new?) atom bomb destruction has been of volcanic lava, which I guess means hydrogen bombs. 

16th of October 2021   If I understood right, this song and video is also a view of how to live after nuclear war: 

About paying national dept

 An idea like this: 

" 1st of September 2021   Money for music or for a puppy that one likes or for the poor and quite poor, money for food, money for farmers who lack money, etc, money for buying a white curing (nurse oriented or the like) animal friend, money for living around voluntary labour for religiously motivated good causes, money for sports, recreation in nature and hobbies, etc, see I 105. in this text about the skills of Christmas gnomes learntalents.blogspot.com . The idea was curing by my Finnish blog parantamisesta.blogspot.com , partially translated at curingguesses.blogspot.com , by reading aloud or by email or chat copying and pasting primarily from the index but also the needed texts. Paying only if gets cured inside 5min, payment some 20%of local medicine centre basic fee per cured illness, special pay for miracle cures. But I do not have the possibility for such since I am already too much in the subject because of having written the blog. 

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Different countries typically have different goals

 It sometimes happens that some foreigners ruin good life and achievements in your own country whennthey want their own vountry win in those and think that you have sgainst judtice dtolen their chances. But then it often is so that in theur own country they do not have thosr things as major goals and that is why they don't have them and that is why someone wanting such values gets classigied tobyour country, and since they insist something like thst to be added to their original country  thry appear to have in that a fight between vountries, whennit in fact is judt the one or few persons misbehavibg snd dedtroying localnpossibilities for life.

Well behaved, high position and skills

 My Easy quick school for animals at learntalents.blogspot.com E11. could be useful for humans too to study. And the rest of the long blog text teaches skills and talents. Could this help peace?

Interpreting looks

 "  The space a person looks likevhaving is usually the area she/he xarries responsibility over and not his/her rights&power, it is what the person does & thinks thst moment or ordinarily. How high some person appears to be, depends on who made the markings, and usually one has oneself instinctually made such marking on some good grounds and later has just forgotten what the reason was. Typically high skills in the area of life in question and wishing well in large scale things get marked high."

Learntalents.blogspot.com part 9. , I 42. 

Women power

 See in my text Skills of Christmas gnomes learntalents.blogspot.com points C69., C71. and A84., and maybe back it up with A11.

Against spying technology

 When I studied in the University of Helsinki, one of my study pals there, possibly from Asia, was very much afraid of the use of mobile phones to spy people and control them so. I do not so much know about that, a nasty subject, but think if you were wanted to your own dream life, for example dream profession, you would have a place there, safety and support. So please consider moving to live in a town which draws people by givibg such possibilities in just those professions. Please read my blogs todreamjob.blogspot.com and Skills of Christmas gnomes learntalents.blogspot.com . 

Fair position

"G62.   4th of March 2021    I have given my pets position in a good well working way, the same way I give to others, regardless of age, sex, species etc, both to humans and animals and possible other beings. Each one gets position according to how much understanding and skills they have and how moral they are in the questions etc affected, i.e. one ought to affect toward good of the world and of the society and of the persons, both humans and animals, affected. My poodle Banjo has typically had a good position since he has had 12 years time to learn and adapt to this and he has a good understanding and good will, is interested in the things affected and is considerate and good willing toward others. But in giving position one needs to make safety precautions if someone has not been good enough earlier always, and also if one does not know something for sure. If your skills are not high enough to estimate something, you cannot give high position based on that, but instead just say that it might be but you cannot estimate since your skills are not enough. Generally I think that such position just exists according to justice, it is not exactly ginen by someone, even though one must be considerate toward those affected."

From my Christmas gnome skills text  learntalents.blogspot.com

About avoiding a situation turning to a fight

 About avoiding a situation turning to a fight if one is alone. Each (even aggressive seeming) person has typically a normal everyday life and it's courses are kind of tracks that he/she is in, and going along those tracks but as somewhat mild or nondangerous version, typically gets situations run well, without conflicts and with good communocation if one oneself is in civiliced ways and functions naturally that way, in civiliced harmony with the environment, yet with quite distant social relationships and only a short encounter.

About high position

 A high position in the sense of having an important job, often means that such individual's life is somehow restricted. The job determines a lot about it and so it does not have so much freedom like ordinary people have. So influencies from polityicians, priests, and other people with an important job, maybe restrict one's possibilities to choose freely in one's life what to do and what to be like, even if one aims at being fit into the society.

A high position in the sense of being moral and skilled isn't such a job. It gives lesspossibilities to affect large scale things but leaves one's rights as a citizen untouched. If some such big things needs safeguarding, such is the right of all who behave morally in it and in skilled enough ways.

About the military service

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E16. 30th of September 2020   Boys and men being malicious toward girls and women is at least partly a question of thinking that boys and men are forced to get themselves killed in a war while women and girls not. But that is not quite so, since the benefit for a country of men going to war is to defend the country, to defend the good sides of it's way of life, circumstancies, values, for of government, skill level etc. And that in practice means that they have to have a some kind of army that is alive. A man getting killed in the war is no longer useful to one's country, so ´getting killed is not at all the idea of having an army. There are several ways of avoiding people getting killed. One is to avoid war but not at all costs. Another is to have so much skills that one does not automatically get killed, and here one must remember that you must invest on the skills of your own country instead of sticking to the skills levels of other countries, since those have different strenghts to help them. And you can fiught milder, not at all costs but instead in wise ways that respoect values and that safeguard against betrayals, traps, lies etc. So an army ought not be a question of getting killed, there is just the danger of dying and that is why one should count on skills and on the strenghts learned from civilian life, and not do stupid deeds. When kids are young, they rae typically asked if they would like to go to the military service when they are young adults, and typically boys always answer that they want to go to the army while girls say that they do not want since it is planned just for boys, but maybe they too want to keep such option available. So as older they are just asked, do you still want to go to the military service, have ýou so decided? It is important to have skills for life, but in a society that means also that those with skills have to take care of such things for the whole country, like is wise. But military matters interest just about all, so all have some kind of opinions and tactis an´bout them, but the opinions differ and so differ the tactics too, and so men and women choose different roads in life even though they all need to take care of the military things too, but being commanded by young boys isn't the way for a country to defend well.
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http://learntalents.blogspot.com

What was Russian tsar like

As far as I know Russian tsar when he ruled was an individual interested in the upbringing of children and in getting people to do their work in a good quality way and to carry responsibility as parts of the nation. For that purpose when the tsar travelled he did or bought something done in a good quality way or otherwise so that it would make the local people do work in a good qualiuty way, use their own understanding and carry responsibility as parts of the nation - and this oughty to have been so that they in turn would have got other similarly to the right tracks for the nation to work well and people be healthy happy and free´ina civilized way. But I guess that this meant that the tsar did not have much power to command, more likely to listen to what professionals and wise people with common sense say. And the big things like trans-Siberian railway were propably the needs of the time by the opinion of many professionals and tsar was just the figure head in them, in a good quality way so as to get the nation to work well. And as such it maybe does not matter so much that he is not in power, but it disturbs the nation a lot if such deeds are opposed and not valued. Children upbringing is important for the nation and for the wide world, for the people themselves, for their happiness and possibilites in life, for what the society develops to in what comes to the quality of life and the skill level and wisdom in use.

29th of August 2020   A picture from a brochure of the fishing hut of the Russian tsar in Kotka in southern Finland.

Understanding men and women

From my gnome skills text http://learntalents.blogspot.com

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D12. 6th of August 2020   Some women create social tangles by how they associate with men and especially boys. They kind of like their ways and so they drown to each subject so that they lose sight of rationality and good quality and moral and the guidelines of bringing up children, and so they may end up in a danger of being beaten. If one wants to understand men and boys, one ought not drown in each subject of conversation but instead pay attention to what is the other poerson's way of thinking, see it as one picture as a aprt of one's thoughts/view, and see how good thinking ability the other one has: what he observes and what not, and what kinds of things he always errs in. In addition one ought to know his situation of life, what are the major factors in it, what kinds of social situations he tends to have and what tends to happen in them and what he so chooses as his tactic and what it leads to. And what kind of social pressure there is on him, what kind of place offered, in use, what he considers an imago question and how he handles such and what he so takes care of and what not,what does the situation look in his eyes and what objectively, what in the eyes of others. And so what is the society like and how are important things taken care of.

D13.   Some men do not understand women. The reason is that they think that all women are roughly alike and try to search for some common womanhood and so think that all women have all other women's characteristics, and that of course does not work out! Women aren't so complex. And individual differencies are typically bigger than the differencies between women and men. Different women are mostly characterised by the country, climate and culture they themselves are from, and what areas of life they personally feel inclined toward, and what are their skill levels, values and type of social relationships, and what professionm they are in and what situation of life they have in the biggest respects. Often men also confuse different types of women to be the same person, or alike because of profession even if they have different ways and different types of major hobbies, likings etc."