Finding safety

"generally one can
find safety if one is in accord with the wishes of a very wide
majority of the surrounding people. And there are many ways to that.
Three ways that I consider among the best are following the rule "Live
and let others live!" (See Learn the skills of Finns
http://finnishskills.blogspot.fi/), selfishness-based moral in the
same blog and more widely moral at large (See
http://healthilymoral.blogspot.fi) and then my own social skill from
my twenties, see World is of love (a mechanical model)
http://healthilymoral.blogspot.fi/2011/08/world-is-of-love.html .
Common sense and a picture of the whole are also needed, see the first
mentioned blog."